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Teaching Conflict Resolution Skills in the Classroom

Teaching students conflict resolution skills and providing them with time to practice these steps in various scenarios is an excellent way to support their social-emotional learning and growth. It's important for upper elementary students to learn effective conflict resolution skills and to understand the value and power of handling conflicts constructively.

By making time to teach and practice conflict resolution skills, we can help students develop into confident, empathetic, and well-adjusted individuals. These conflict resolution activities and lesson ideas include strategies to help students not only resolve disputes peacefully but also build strong, positive relationships through understanding and cooperation.

1) Teach the Vocabulary of CONFLICT

When teaching my SEL Conflict Resolution unit, I am sure to give students the vocabulary necessary to learn about the topic and experience it in deep and meaningful ways. I provide them with the definitions of conflict, resolution, forgiveness, compromise, and personality.

To define conflict resolution for my students, I first define conflict as “a serious disagreement; a state of disharmony or lack of peacefulness, and I define resolution as “the act of finding an answer or solution to a conflict or problem.” So, conflict resolution is “the act of finding an answer or solution to a serious disagreement, conflict, or problem.”

🌟 Through SEL-focused Morning Meetings, I display a bulletin board of the topic we are learning about. This bulletin board contains key vocabulary, related quotations, and anchor charts that we develop together throughout the unit.

2) PROVIDE SELF-REFLECTION OPPORTUNITIES

In my SEL Conflict Resolution Morning Meeting Unit, I like to use self-assessments and questionnaires that encourage students to think about their relationship with conflict and how they typically choose to manage it. We also take time to set both personal and whole-class goals relating to conflict management skills.

3) TEACH THE 5 CONFLICT RESOLUTION STYLES

Teaching students that not all conflicts hold the same importance and that different resolution styles may be more effective depending on the situation, helps students to be better equipped to step back and analyze a problem or conflict before immediately responding to it.

After introducing the 5 Conflict Resolution Styles, I offer a few conflict scenarios and examples that may arise in a classroom. Students discuss where one might choose to apply that particular resolution style and generate possible positives and negatives (pros and cons) for each way of resolving a conflict. Get more details about this conflict resolution activity here.

🌟This chart of 5 Conflict Resolution Styles, along with pros and cons graphic organizers can be found in my Conflict and Compromise SEL teaching unit. It includes 20 days of editable lesson plans to help you teach your students about conflict and the strategies we can use to get along better and resolve them more respectfully and effectively.

4) GENERATE CONFLICT RESOLUTION STEPS FOR THE CLASSROOM

Divide students into small groups and ask them to work together to create a list of steps that a person should go through to productively resolve a conflict in the classroom or school. You might suggest that students brainstorm all possible ideas, group them into related strategies, and then pull the ideas together in a step-by-step process that they can follow to resolve a conflict.

Have each group share their process and allow the whole group to ask questions and give feedback on steps that may be missing, need clarification, or need to be taken out. Create a class anchor chart of steps compiled from the group discussion.

5) FlipPING to an “Attitude of COMPROMISEACTIVITY

Discuss with students the concept of “perspective” and how learning to understand different perspectives in a situation is one way to become better at compromise when conflict arises. Give students compromise example scenarios and have them work in small groups, recording ideas in their notebooks or on chart paper and constructing a shared resolution that they would consider a good compromise for the situation. Have each group present their compromise example scenario to the class and then discuss the different ideas for resolving the issue.

6) Read Aloud CONFLICT RESOLUTION Books

Incorporate children’s literature and picture books that touch on themes of conflict resolution, compromise, taking accountability, apologizing, and forgiveness. Be sure to choose a variety of stories so that students have examples of all five conflict resolution styles. Some of my favorites are Feathers and Fools by Mem Fox, The First Strawberries by Joseph Bruchac, and The Forgiveness Garden by Lauren Thompson. You can click here if you need more read aloud recommendations for conflict resolution books!

🌟After reading aloud (or viewing) many different texts related to resolving conflicts, I lead my students through a compare and contrast activity. By detailing the situations, main conflicts, and ways of resolving the conflicts from each text, we are able to pull together themes and big ideas that encompass a variety of texts. By taking the time to tease out threads of connection among different stories, we are able to deepen the understanding of each text AND deepen students’ understanding of resolving conflict itself in their own lives.

7) IDENTIFY THE CHALLENGES OF RESOLVING CONFLICT AND GENERATE STRATEGIES FOR OVERCOMING THEM

It is no secret that consistently remaining calm to productively resolve a conflict has its challenges. ​Have students generate some examples of the challenges that make it difficult for us to remain calm when resolving conflict as you create an anchor chart. Try to get a good variety of challenges to discuss.​ Then, discuss ways to overcome the different challenges we face in remaining calm when resolving a conflict.

🌟 I like to lead this activity with the graphic organizer shown in the picture below. After students and I generate a few examples, students can add challenges specific to their own experiences with conflict. Allowing them a bit of time to think through their own ways to overcome these challenges helps support students in dealing with similar conflicts more appropriately and positively in the future.

8) Show Videos about CONFLICT RESOLUTION

Video is a great way to share a new concept with students, especially for showing and analyzing conflict resolution examples together as a class. This video by Kid President focused on how to disagree is one of my favorites. In my SEL Conflict Resolution Morning Meeting Unit I’ve included a suggested playlist of videos for Resolving Conflict and for teaching Compromise.

9) Analyze CONFLICT RESOLUTION Quotations

Have students reflect on popular conflict resolution quotes and analyze the similarities and differences between them to generate big ideas about conflict resolution. I weave conflict resolution quotations throughout my SEL Conflict Resolution unit and guide students to discuss them to deepen their opinions and understanding of managing conflict in their lives.

10) Create CONFLICT RESOLUTION Symbols

Ask students to come up with a symbol that represents conflict resolution and can serve as a personal reminder to help them gracefully manage conflict in difficult situations. Examples of symbols could include a handshake (representing agreement and reconciliation), puzzle pieces fitting together (symbolizing finding a solution that fits everyone), scales (to represent fairness and balance in resolving conflicts), or even a heart (symbolizing empathy, understanding, and compassion).

NEED DONE-FOR-YOU ACTIVITIES FOR TEACHING CONFLICT RESOLUTION SKILLS AND COMPROMISE?

In my Conflict Resolution and Compromise SEL-themed morning meeting unit, you will find all of the resources you need to teach your students about conflict resolution and compromise, including suggested conflict resolution books to read aloud, engaging conflict resolution activities and lesson ideas, discussion questions, conflict resolution and compromise quotes (in journal and poster form), and a personal self-assessment. Student journal pages highlight activities like steps for resolving conflict, examples of behaviors that indicate conflict and ideas to try, conflict resolution examples for students, and brainstorming challenges of resolving conflict and identifying strategies for each.

You can manage to do each of these activities with a reflection journal and materials you have around the classroom, but if you want some of the work done for you, including Google Slides, you can check out my Conflict Resolution and Compromise SEL theme unit. I use this unit for a 2-3 week morning meeting unit. It includes student journal pages, detailed and editable lesson plans, bulletin board materials with key vocabulary and conflict resolution quotes, Google Slides for the teacher, and a digital student notebook. This Conflict Resolution and Compromise theme unit is also included in the SEL Morning Meeting MEGA Bundle which contains 17 social-emotional learning themes. If you’re looking to increase your social-emotional learning focus, you’ve come to the right place!

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Which of the suggested conflict resolution activities do you think your students would respond to the most?

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